Thursday, October 31, 2013

Riddle Riddle Ree...I See Something You Don't See...

Peace


Have you ever had a special place that whenever you are not feeling well that you think of that place and you are at peace?  Well that place was my grandparent's farm.  I say "was" because the farm was sold years ago and most of the buildings on the farm have been torn down.  But luckily, my memories of the farm are as vivid in my mind as if I had just visited there yesterday.  I am flooded with so many memories as I try to determine which of the many special places on the farm to share.  So, Riddle Riddle Ree, let's see where my memories takes me.

Walking up to the house there is a creek rock path and there on the porch are my grandparents.   Do you see them?  My Mamaw is sitting there in her light linen house dress which moves slightly as the breeze stirs around to cool her.  She is holding a dish towel in her hands which tells me she is taking a quick break from her chores.  My Papaw is sitting in his chair with overalls and a long sleeve blue button up shirt. He is mumbling under his breath about something he just heard on the radio.  The little radio sits inside the screen door on a shelf in the kitchen.  I open the screen door and hold onto to the inside handle to make sure it doesn't slam closed.  The spring on the door never worked as long as I can remember.  But if I let the door slam, my Papaw would grumble, "Hold that handle!"

As I cross the kitchen into the dining room, I check to see what Mamaw has cooking on the stove.  I lift the lid slowly to let the steam hit my face and fill the room with the aroma of the food.  The smell of the fresh farm veggies cooking and the fried chicken make me instantly hungry.  Placing the lid back on the pot, I see out of the corner of my eye that there is a lemon meringue pie sitting on the counter.  The pie with the tall fluffy meringue is cooling from just coming out of the oven.  Knowing that it is still about an hour before dinner (which is lunch in the country), my cousin and I go through the dining room to the living room.

There in the corner of the living room is a step up and then a door.  It is always eerily quiet in the living room, because almost everyone is sitting on the porch to cool in the breeze.  It is always too hot in the house.  But there is the door; the porcelain handle is waiting to be turned.  No one had opened the door since our last visit. There is something both inviting and scary about opening the door, so we turn the handle slowly and then swing open the door.  The breeze pushes the door open and I can feel the sweat that beaded on my forehead start to evaporate.  I count one, two, three, four steps and then turn to the left for five, six, seven steps.  At the top of the steps, I stop to look around first.  I am checking to make sure that there are no snakes, birds or other animals in the attic.  The attic is my playground.  The unique thing about the attic is that there are two windows on one side of the room and one window on the direct opposite wall.  The house sits on top of a hill so the summer breeze enters the room through the two windows.  But the breeze can't just escape as easily as it came in because there is only one window across the room.  So the breeze whirls around the room and cool us as we explore and play.

There is the source of hours of entertainment, the trunk.  The trunk sits behind the roll away bed.  So we drag the trunk out from behind the roll away bed and then inside we find our treasures.  The dresses that our mothers and aunts wore to dances, proms and weddings are neatly folded in the trunk.  Since our mother’s didn't have much money they made their clothes.  The memories of the dances and the weddings are with the dresses.  There are also the dried flowers and corsages that engage our imaginations to wonder how our mother’s felt when given the flowers.  My Mamaw had finally let us start to play with the dresses.  This was only after when she realized that no one was ever going to wear them again.  Since the dresses are really special to her, we always place the dresses back in the plastic bags that she had them carefully stored.  We pretend that we are in high school.  We act like part of the attic was the school and my cousin pretends she was the teacher.  Then we pretend the other side of the attic was our house.  We put the dresses on and pretend we are at the dance.  We play until we are called down to the kitchen for dinner.

We watch our mothers serve our fathers.  Our fathers just came in from the fields and need to eat and rest before going back out to finish the work.  I see my father and wonder if he remembers the dress my mother wore to her prom.  Does he know that it is upstairs?  The mothers fix the children’s plates and send us out on the porch to eat.  Finally, the women clear the table from the men and fix their plates.  The men go back out to the field to work.  The women settle in at the table to share their stories with their mother, their sister and their friend.  I listen to hear the sisters laugh with their mother, for them to reminisce about those years gone by.  Then my cousin and I go back to the attic and open the trunk, the memories of the dances and the weddings are with the dresses once again.

Riddle Riddle Ree… What Do You See?


Saturday, October 26, 2013

Riddle Riddle Ree...I See Something You Don't See...

A Story


When looking for inspiration today to write, I pulled out old photo albums.  For those that were born only in the digital age, we old folks use to take pictures with a camera on film.   We did not get the opportunity to take a photo, look at the photo that instantly and determine if we should retake to get a better picture.  I can hear my mom still to this day saying "Johnnie, take one more just in case."  Just in case the picture was out of focus, just in case one of the kids wasn't smiling, or just in case someone had their eyes closed.  Just in case, because it was your only chance to capture that moment.  The only chance to be able to capture an image that years later you could go back and look at and remember.  But capturing the photo was only the beginning of the process.

Getting the 36 exposure 35mm film developed was always interesting journey.  The film would be placed in a drawer, the bottom of your purse or left in the suitcase to be found later.   Film was like little treasures because you quite often forgot what was on that roll of film.  Here in your hand was this film that held the memories of your life.  It was only protected by a plastic outer cover.  If the film was exposed to light, your images would be lost.  You memories still there in your mind, but maybe not as clear to recall if the photo existed.   

Walking into the store you would go to the film counter to fill out the yellow envelope with your name, address, phone number and the most important box...double prints.  Double prints is the way that you would share your photos with others.  If you got double prints you could then take the duplicate photo, place it in a envelope with a hand written letter that you would mail to your friend.  Mailing was when you  drove to the post office, wrote the address of your friend on the envelope, placed a stamp on the envelope and  mailed the envelope.  Your friend would then receive the photo two days or up to five days later.

But before you could mail the photo, you had to wait up to a week to get the film developed and the pictures back to finally see the images that were captured.  There was something about that waiting, the anticipation that gave you excitement.  You go back to the store's photo counter and ask the clerk, "Do you have photos for Hogan?".  The clerk would look through all the bins, come back and say "Not yet."  Then you would wait.  Waiting is the thing that us old folks would do that made one appreciate what you would finally receive.  Finally, the photos would show up at the store.  Again it was up to you to go to the store, ask the clerk and get the photos.    Then you would rush to the car with the newly developed prints and open the package.  Sitting in the car flipping through each photo you would smile, laugh and remember.  Each photo held the memories of the moment and the memories that you would get to experience again by viewing the photo.  You rush home and show the photo to your love ones saying "I didn't even remember us doing that!" or "What a great picture."

Then to preserve the memories you would label the back of the photo with a pen that would not leak through the photo paper.  The labeling was sort of like "tagging" the photo that is done now.  You would write the date on the back of the photo, who was in the picture, where the picture was taken and maybe even comment on the photo.  Then you carefully would find the photo album, a book that held the pictures, and place the photo in protective plastic sleeves of the album.  I remember my mom telling us if we would help her during this process, "Don't get your finger prints on the photo.  Hold the photo on the edges."

The photo album would be placed on the shelf in the family room.  The family room was the place the family gathered to enjoy each other's company.  Talk about your day, read a book, pray and watch the only television in the house with four channels together.  Then when your friends came over for a visit, you would take the album off the shelf and ask if they would like to look at your photos from your last trip.  You would share with your friends your memories, what you were doing in the photo.  And maybe the funny thing that happend after the photo that you remember.  The conversation would start and hours would past as you shared with your friend these moments.  This sharing of moments formed stories, stories that were shared among your family and friends for generations.

Although photo processing has changed with the digital age, it should not change the way we process the photo.  Labeling is now tagging, printing is now posting but sharing is still sharing.  Share your photos and give them a story.

Riddle Riddle Ree...What Do You See?

Sunday, October 20, 2013


Riddle Riddle Ree...What Do I See?

Persistence

I work from home so that I can have total silence in order to get my work accomplished.  Sitting in silence you often hear various sounds.  There was one day in April that I keep hearing the sound of a thump.  Thump...Thump...Thump...Thump
I stop working and went around the house looking to see what the sound was coming from.  I checked to see what our dog was doing, sleeping as usual.  I walked with caution to the basement.  Since I was a kid, I hated investigating sounds that came from the basement because of the basement monsters.  But, I reluctantly went in the basement and looked.  Still, I couldn't find the source.
Thump...Thump...Thump....Thump
Now the sound was driving me insane.  What was making the noise?  And then my eyes were drawn to the mini blind on the back door moving.  Okay something was outside the back door.
Thump...Thump...Thump...Thump
I grabbed a knife from the butcher block, just in case the basement monsters escaped and where trying to get back in the house.  I slowly walked to the door.  Where's the dog, he will protect me.  Oh I forgot he was sleeping.  But, I was sure that he would come to my defense if the basement monsters got me.
Thump...Thump...Thump...Thump
I began to open the mini blinds and to my amazement there was nothing there.  Then THUMP! Right in my face as something hit the glass.  I screamed!  THUMP!  What was that? Then I looked at the patio chair.  There sat a cardinal bird that continued to fly into the window.  Why?   I backed away from the door to watch and to see if he would do it again.  THUMP.  He hit the door again. I went to my computer and typed in Google Search "Why does a bird fly into a window over and over?" The results from http://www.massaudubon.org/Nature_Connection/wildlife/index.php?subject=Birds:%20Behavior&id=17 stated that the male cardinal will do this during the mating period because he believes it is another bird trying to move into his territory.  And that this "window fighting" behavior may last until August.  How was I going to handle months of a bird flying into my window?  I decided I wasn't going to be able to handle it and I needed to find a solution.  So for the next weeks began the experiments.  I started to notice that he only did this during a certain time of day when the sun hit the glass and made it reflective like a mirror.  So, I started hanging mini decorative stain glass window art from the door.  That stopped him for a couple of days.  I let the dog out during the time he was doing flying into the window.  That stopped him for twenty minutes, because guess what my dog did.  My dog found a nice spot outside and went to sleep, great guard dog.

So I gave up, I began to accept that this male bird was being protective of his mate and their offspring.  If he was going to be persistent, then I was going to be accepting.  So developed my love for my cardinal bird and his family.  I can always tell when she is sitting on the nest, because THUMP he hits the door for weeks.  Then I will see him and her sitting on the patio table after the nesting period is done.  And of course, he flies into the door again...THUMP...and she sits there and watches as I do with pride knowing he is protecting her and their offspring.

Riddle Riddle Ree...What do you see?

Tuesday, October 15, 2013


Riddle Riddle Ree..I See Something You Don't See...

Reality of Life

A pot left on the ground over the seasons became victim to the harshness of the environment.  This once strong, solid pot had provided safe haven to the plants which flourished in the pot's protection. The pot began to form cracks from the daily pressure.  But, the pot continued to provide a place for the plants to grow.  Then the elements of the weather caused the pot to break.  Fall came and the plants withered away for the winter.   The moss formed in the pot and gave protection to the roots of the plants.  Spring came and the plants that found shelter in the pot began to flourish again.  It didn't matter that the pot had imperfections.  What mattered was that the pot still provided the essentials to make sure the plants continued to grow.

Riddle Riddle Ree..What do you see?

Sunday, October 13, 2013

Riddle Riddle Ree What Do I See?

Dreams

I held his hand as we went into Sullivan University's doors to register for his classes.  He was nervous and unsure if this was the right thing to do.  In his heart, he knew it was what he always dreamed of doing. In his head, he as scared of the unknown.  He hadn't been in a classroom in over 30 years and was worried that he would not be able to keep up with the younger classmates.

He started the first day, the first week, the month's past and he was working hard to do the academics.  The culinary classes came with ease and excitement.  He was excited about learning new techniques and skills in culinary.  He continued to work hard and he reaped the benefits...graduation!


  As he looks to the future, he still is looking forward at his dreams and now realizes that dreams do come true.

Riddle Riddle Ree...What Do You See?

Thursday, October 10, 2013

Riddle Riddle Ree…What do I see?

The man who does not read has no advantage over the man who cannot read.” 
 
Mark Twain





I was nine years old visiting my grandmother in Springfield, Kentucky, a small rural town.  It was there that I fell in love with reading.  We had gotten up that morning and did our usually routine of eating a wonderful breakfast that my Grandpa had ready for us.  I can still taste the salty butter flavor of the homemade biscuits that was enhanced by the sweetness of the blackberry jam.  Then the fresh squeezed orange juice and the smell of the coffee.  That was the mornings at my grandparent’s house.   They didn’t have the intrusions of the daily life that we have now, we were able to sit and enjoy the meal around the table as a family.

With no plans for the day, my grandmother took her book and went and sat on the screen porch.  She sat in the green metal glider and sipped on her coffee and began to read.  I sat beside her and gently moved the glider back and forth.  I listened to the morning birds as they called to each other trying to imagine what they were saying.  Then as I snuggled up with her to find warmth in the cool autumn breeze, she began to read out loud. 

 “You don't know about me without you have read a book by the name of The Adventures of Tom Sawyer; but that ain't no matter. That book was made by Mr. Mark Twain, and he told the truth, mainly.”  - Adventures of Huck Finn

I laid there and listened to her voices as she pronounced each word. Then she began to change her tone to give each character their own unique voice.  The images appeared in my mind of this young boy and all those he encountered.  It was at that moment the spark was ignited.  I found I place where my imagination could take over, where adventures could happen and where emotions could be explored.



Riddle Riddle Ree…What do you see.?

Tuesday, October 8, 2013

Riddle Riddle Ree...I see something you don't see...and it is...

A Journey

Life is not about the destination it is about the journey.  

During my journey my focus was drawn upward to the purple, blues and the clearing that was far ahead in the sky.  I did not need to look straight ahead to know where I was going.  I trusted in the knowledge that looking toward heaven would guide me on my journey.

Riddle Riddle Ree...What Do You See?

Sunday, October 6, 2013

Riddle Riddle Ree... What Do I See?...
A Promise
I reluctantly walked out the door to take my son for the third trip of the day.  As we were backing out of the driveway, a rainbow began to appear from behind the clouds.  We drove about 100 feet down the street and as the clouds began to clear a full double rainbow appeared.  

I stopped the car and we got out of the car and looked at how the full double rainbow filled the entire sky.  I tried to get a picture that capture the entire rainbow, but I couldn't.  The rainbow was too large, too impressive and too awe inspiring.  As I got back in the car and started to drive off, I told my son, "Thank you."  He said "For what?"  I replied, "Had you not ask me to drop you off at practice, we would have never got to experience seeing a full double rainbow."   
He then asked, "Why do rainbows form?"  
I replied, "Scientifically, droplets in the sky reflecting light form the rainbow.  But I like to see the rainbow as a promise that God is giving us that the bad that we have experienced will not occur again.  That God will be there for us."

May you find that rainbow that fills your life with promise.

Riddle Riddle Ree...What Do You See?

Friday, October 4, 2013


Riddle Riddle Ree What do I see...

The souls of those that have passed going to heaven.
My cousin and I sat under the pear tree with our grandfather on his farm on a warm summer night.  We were sitting on the ground waiting for the evening breeze to begin to cool the night.  The whippoorwills were doing their last dancing flights of the day as the sun began to set into the rolling hills.  The sky was painted pink and purple and small clouds began to appear.  My grandfather asked in his wise country voice, "Girls, do you know where those little clouds came from?"  We answered "No."  He then told us, "Those are the souls of the people that have died.  When you pray for someone's soul, God will bless you with watching them pass into heaven.  But in order to see them you have to be able to be thankful for the sunset."


Riddle Riddle Ree...What do you see? 

Tuesday, October 1, 2013


Riddle Riddle Ree..I see something you don't see...
Tears, that fall when no one else can see them.

Have you cried and did not want anyone to see you?  Have you felt alone and did not let anyone know? Have you felt as if you were trapped in stone and no one could get to your heart to make it whole again?  

Let the tear come out, let the emotion flow, let the feelings be known and make sure you do not get trapped.  You will never heal if you can not feel the touch.

Riddle Riddle Ree...What do you see?